NJoy 2.0

I made it to the Pleasure Chest this afternoon, which seems like a pretty nice establishment., and not too sketchy, unlike many other sex shops I've been to. After sitting for a while on my Tristan 2, it didn't seem as much like slipping out as it had at first, and once I put on a tight thong and a pair of stretch workout shorts under my jeans, I wasn't nearly as worried about it slipping out. So I wore it to the Pleasure Chest.

Once there, I did purchase the NJoy 2.0, although when I felt the weight of the box I was a little nervous. Well, of course the first thing I did when I got home was put it in! Absolutely delightful, and so comfortable too. I'm still wearing it! It's comfortable in a different way than the World's Most Comfortable Plug. Because of the one-piece construction of the NJoy, it doesn't shift around as much as the WMC, and I'm not as worried that it's going to come apart. (I'm sure there's no danger of that with the WMC but still somehow that rubber tubing makes me a little nervous.)

I drove by the Mr. S store because it wasn't very far away, but it looked scary, and I would probably take one of my trusted companions (probably my roommate, who is usually up for an adventure as well) if I were to go back. I know it's probably primarily a gay store, considering its location...I wonder if the nice Mr. S people would wonder what I was doing there, buying such a big ass toy. ;-)

Anyway, after my new plug was all in, I was very horny, of course. I love that ring on the back. It suggests endless possibilities. So I clipped a length of chain to it and put a collar on just to see how it would look. I liked the look of it, and the coldness of the chain very much. I put my metal-finish vibrator on my pussy and came right away! :-) Happy day!
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Quickie

Just a fast post to say that I just love sitting on Tristan 2! I'm sitting on it now. I sat with it in at work earlier too. Ahh....my ass feels so good and full! I'm on my way to the Pleasure Chest because I did get paid, paid my bills, and now I want that NJoy 2.0! I'll post again later today after I've gotten it and tried it out. I'm hoping they have it! It is on the website though, and they only have three locations, so I figure chances are good, right? If not, I guess I'll venture over to Mr. S, although I'm a little afraid. (I know, I know, you're thinking, "But you're the Sexual Adventurer! Surely you're up for an adventure!") Don't worry, if I do make it there, I'll be sure to let you know how it goes! :-)

In the meantime, I'm thinking about getting a leather or PVC skirt. My choices are somewhat limited because I'm a pretty big girl...a voluptuous BBW, if you will, but I found a site (Big Gals Lingerie) that looks interesting. I'm thinking about either the butt out spanky skirt (because you know how I like it up the butt) or the skirt that laces up on both sides. They're both on this page and I can't link directly to the items. (Sad!) Any thoughts? Prefer one over the other?

That brings me to my next item of note. (I guess this post is not so quick after all, is it?) I DO have sexual partners for whom I could wear these items--a couple of them, in fact, (both men, even though I'm bisexual), although I don't have sex with them very often. It's not that I'm against sex, but I have a very busy life, and I would rather be in a relationship than do random fucking. (Obviously I'm pretty proficient at just fucking myself.) I wouldn't say that either of the men I am currently messing around with are guys that I would want around forever (although I have been an occasional companion to one of them for three years). I doubt either of them are interested in me for that reason either, which is totally fine. I am not being mean about these guys...they're both nice guys, but I think we are mainly in it for the sex. ;-)

Anyway, I think I'm going to head out to the local sex shops before traffic gets bad, and be thankful that I live in LA, where there actually ARE a number of sex shops to visit. (Thanks FlySaab for the tip about Pleasure Chest!)
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Oh the kink...

So yesterday, I had to work not one but TWO of my jobs, which is unusual for a Wednesday. That's why I wasn't able to post--I was simply exhausted by the end of the day! I entertained myself sexually throughout the day, though, to help keep me alert, sane, and occupied. I slipped my WMC in first thing in the morning, and it stayed there the whole day. I wore nothing but a bra, a straight knee-length dress, and a pair of shoes. And my plug, of course. Well by the end of the day, I was tired and horny, so I decided to try something on the long ride home from my second job.

I put a beach towel over my car seat and drove off the parking lot, fully clothed. Then while I was driving (on surface streets, mind you) I first stripped my dress off. Then off came my bra, so I was driving in the nude. In downtown LA. At least it was dark, right? Well...I felt a little funny being completely naked so anyone could have seen, so after a driving a while longer, I slipped on an open leather jacket and drove the rest of the way home, with my breasts out of the jacket. At least I could pull it closed if I felt like someone was watching.

As you can well imagine, by the time I got home and pulled into my apartment complex parking garage, I was thoroughly horny! I had some things to throw away in our dumpster which is in the garage, so I got out of the car (wearing nothing but my butt plug), walked over to the dumpster, and got back in my car. I was so horny that I didn't think I could make it upstairs to my apartment, so I sat right there in my car and masturbated! Haha...it was fun. Well after that, I wasn't feeling brave enough to get out of the car again, and I had to get up to my apartment somehow, without giving my neighbors a show. So I put my dress on and went up the stairs.

After that I decided that my ass needed a little break, so I didn't wear my plug last night or this morning, but by afternoon I put my WMC in, hoping that Tristan 2 would come in the mail, which it did! I was so excited. I got the purple one, and it looks so cool! Unfortunately I have found that it's hard to keep in, so I'll probably have to be content with sitting on it. (Or buying/making a harness of some kind, which sounds either expensive or a lot of trouble.) I'm sitting on it right now, in fact. I got it in with no trouble, but I can really feel the stretch on my hole! My other regular plug has only rubber tubing connecting it with the base, creating the fullness inside, but not on the hole. The Tristan 2 is 1.5" or so in diameter at the shaft and 2" at the head. I do like the shape of it, so I'm not complaining by any "stretch." My next purchase is still the NJoy 2.0, but I still need to get paid and pay the March bills before I get it. Anyway, I think I'm going to head for the bed--it's getting late! And I'm still trying to decide whether to sleep plugged or not.
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Memories

I'm tired this evening but the workday went well. I spent most of the day plugged with my WMC but took it out near the end of the day because my day has been so long and I had to do a lot of walking in the evening. That's all right though--I'm home now, the plug is back in, and I'm already in bed. Now all I have to do is relax.

I said in an earlier entry that I lost my anal virginity first. That's startlingly true. My first boyfriend bent me over my little dormitory bed and fucked me up my ass (at my request). He was much more hesitant than I was--I had to talk him into it. It was his first time to have anal sex! I remember banging my shins over and over on the bedframe. I ended up with bruised shins, but I didn't care! The overall experience was delightful. I lost my virginity by degrees, but in retrospect, that was the first and most personally significant portion of it.

Open question: at what point do you remember becoming sexual or playing with yourself? I used to masturbate (all the way to orgasm--strange but true!) when I was 3. I remember my parents taking me to a pediatrician about my strange behavior. Of course I did it without insertion, just by rubbing my body on something like a pillow. I've masturbated my whole life! I don't ever really remember not doing it, although I do remember occasionally getting caught or getting into trouble. That's how I know that humans are inherently sexual. I was doing things at 3 that I didn't know the name of until much later! Societal pressures shame us into feeling guilty over things that come so naturally that we were probably doing them before the guilt ever surfaced. Breaking free from it is hard, but the more we open our bodies to what feels positive, the sooner these walls break down!

Excuse my soapbox tonight...I must just be in a soapbox-y mood! I work in a very conservative environment, which makes my escapades at work all the more entertaining. And I've been at work all day, thinking about the guilt that conservatism inflicts on the innocent. (I use the term "innocent" loosely, I suppose. If you're reading this, you're probably not very innocent! :-) Anyway, I have fun in the bathroom at work, washing my plug and putting it back in my ass, and coming out of the bathroom with a smirk on my face!
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Beautiful Night

This afternoon after work, I settled in the living room with a towel (because my roommate was out all day) to have a good hole stretching session and give my ass a good workout. I brought out my Swedish Erotica 2 1/4" plug and after wearing the WMC for almost 36 "straight" hours, it actually went it surprisingly easily--by far the easiest I've ever put it in! I had it in in probably 5 minutes. However, I realize that the teardrop shape is not appropriate for long-term wear. I can't really walk around with it in because the neck is too short and puts too much pressure on my little asshole. That's why I'm so excited about getting the Tristan II sometime in the next couple of days--it has a longer neck. I managed to wear it for an hour, but then I had to actually get up and get some things done, so I took it out to go to the gym. I wanted an extra-hard workout tonight.

The California sky was so beautiful and clear this evening. That's rare here...Southern California is usually pretty smoggy. But I could really see the stars out; it reminded me of where I used to live, and I was feeling very nostalgic. I had a great workout at the gym, then a friend came over for dinner and tv watching. It was a lovely, low-key evening. I had my WMC plug in while my friend was here, but my ass is a little tired from my stretching session, so I'm going to give myself the night off and replug for work in the morning. Haha...I hope I can last until in the morning with no plug for my lonely, lonely hole! :-)
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24 Hours and Counting!

My World's Most Comfortable Butt Plug continues to live up to its name and has already proved worth the expense of buying it. I love it so much. I've been wearing it since early yesterday morning. Yesterday was a busy day for me. I went to one job plugged, then went to another job, then home, then out to a concert. (The concert was amazing, by the way!) But WMC made it even more enjoyable. I decided to go ahead and sleep with my plug in, since the day had gone so well. That went ok...I did get horny during the night, but I was tired enough that I was able to go back to sleep. So I don't think it disturbed my sleep TOO much. I may try it again tonight, depending on how I'm feeling.

I ordered a Tristan II today even though I said I was going to wait until my next paycheck to order new toys Well, my hungry hole got greedy and I ordered it anyway, partially because it wasn't too expensive. You can look at it here. I'm excited because it should come by Wednesday when I get in from work. My next purchase will be the Njoy Pure Plug 2.0, but it's more expensive, and my poor bank account needs a little recovery time. Anyway, it's time for me to start my day, but maybe I'll be back tonight.
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Minor Update

Well I'm getting ready to go out and when I get back I'll need to go right to bed because I have to get up early tomorrow. I wanted to check in to say that I took that 2 1/4" plug for a little over and hour. After I wrote the last entry, I got in the bath, masturbated, and finally took out the big plug. It hurt a little coming out, but not as much as I was expecting. Right after my shower I put my WMC back in, and it's still there now. So I've been plugged the whole day, but I still don't think I'm ready to try overnight, mainly because I work early tomorrow, and I need to sleep well. I have Monday morning off, so maybe I'll try it tomorrow night. That shouldn't stop me from wearing my WMC plug to work tomorrow though, as long as I feel ok!
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A New Milestone!

Well I'm very excited today to say that I have in my Swedish Erotica 2 1/4" plug today! I have rarely been able to take it all the way in before today. In fact, I can count on one hand the number times I've managed it. Let me explain how I got there: I've been plugged all day today, ever since I got up, with my new favorite, the World's Most Comfortable Butt Plug in the size large. I should name it so I don't have to write that out every time. For now I'll call it the WMC.

My roommate left for work, and I decided to do some training. I took out the WMC and started in on the Double Banger. I STILL can't get it in past the first head, even after trying many positions and using lots of lube! (I'm not despairing by any means...I just haven't managed it YET.) But my ass was still stretched a little further than usual, so I got out my old Swedish Erotica plug. As I have said, it comes out of my toy chest only on rare occasions. I relubed and started pushing.

Wow, I felt like I was going to break open, but OH the sensation when I got it in! The pleasure and pain! I thought it was going to have to come right back out again because the sensation was so intense. So I counted to 30, did some deep breathing, and bent over my bed. But by the time I had done that, I was starting to feel a little better! I convinced myself to leave it in just a little longer. Well...now that's been more than 30 minutes ago! And I'm still counting! It's really big for me. I can barely sit on it. But this is by far the longest I have taken it, and that is very promising! Today's excursion really makes me want to keep at it! I'll leave another post later in the day with my end time, and how things have been the rest of the day. For now I think I'm going to go shower and see how much longer my greedy little asshole can take it.

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Butt Plugging

So my latest craze is extended butt plugging. I've actually been into butt plugs for about 12 years. I lost my anal virginity first, and I had my first experience sticking a handily-shaped screwdriver into my ass even before that. Since then there has been no turning back. I've never really gotten a great stretch going until recently, considering the sporadic nature of my experiences. Right now in addition to wearing a butt plug for several hours a day, I'm also trying to do a good stretch session a few times a week.

I have a nice collection of ass toys--some anal beads, a medium Doc Johnson (about 1 1/2" diameter, my oldest one, and the most frequently used), a large Doc Johnson (2 1/2" in diameter, which I've only gotten in a couple of times--I'm still working up to that one), a similar large plug from Swedish Erotica in black, an inflatable butt plug (which has lost its seal but still inflates part way), and a Triple Ripple (which I don't like very much because it's very large, and because it won't stay in). (This list, of course, does not include various vibrators and dildos, which are not specifically ass toys.)

I've only been trying out this extended-wear thing for a few days. I LOVE the sensation of going out in public, knowing I have a fun little secret that pleasures me even though no one can see it. I had been using the medium Doc Johnson for this purpose, even though it's not super-comfortable. I even left it in at work on Tuesday and Wednesday, although not the entire time. But on Monday I decided that maybe I should branch out, and buying something new and nice and comfortable for extended wear. So I did. I bought two things that day, actually. They had both come in the mail yesterday and were there when I got home from work. I was so excited that I had to try them both out immediately!

The first new toy I got is a real stretcher. It's called the Double Banger, and it's available from the Big Sex Toy Store. You can look at it here. Wow, that little picture doesn't do it justice! It's so huge. I couldn't even get that first hump in my ass last night. I haven't tried again today, but I may try later, and I have every intention of continuing to train for it. So far it seems like the best thing about it is that giant suction base. I've never had a toy with a suction base, but it seems like a great idea. I want to get a pussy toy with a similar base. But not right now...these two purchases drained my recreational-use money until I get paid next!

The second was the World's Most Comfortable Butt Plug, in a size large, available from Mr. S Leather. It's the one in the middle of my profile picture. You can go visit it here. It's true to its name! It really is the most comfortable butt plug I have ever tried. It's also true that the price was quite high, but so far it looks like it's going to be well worth the expense. I was so psyched about it that I wore it to the gym today! It didn't fall out, and I don't think there was really any danger of it, although next time I'll probably use a little less lube. Because it's aluminum, it's more slippery already than those other kinds of plugs--silicone, PVC, etc. Actually, I'm loving the metal, and here's why: it cools or warms, according to how you want it! Unlike many people who like the warmth, I like it cold! I use only ID Lube that's slightly mentholated, because I like that "zing" feeling. I can run the plug under the cold water, slip it in with ease, and enjoy the cooling sensation up my ass. All is right with the world! I'm wearing it now, as I type this. I have every intention of wearing it to work on Sunday as well. It should keep me entertained through my long workday!

One last thought for the day: I am not currently in a sub/Dom relationship, and I never have been. This is not to say that I would be opposed to it, but I at least have not experienced it so far. I bring that up because many people using butt plugs seem to be doing it as part of their training for a Master. I do it simply because I enjoy the feeling of having something up my ass. It's not even all about the masturbation, although having something in the bum obviously does make the act more pleasurable to me. I do it because it makes me feel sexy, and really, what girl doesn't want that?? ;-)
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Welcome

Hello Reader,

Welcome to my blog! I'm very new at this, so bear with me while I get set up and make myself at home. The purpose of this blog is to share sex life tidbits, explore new options, and meet like-minded people. The city is a big place, and I'm a single, bisexual female making my way in it. I have multiple jobs, a great roommate, and a few good friends. So I'm busy, but not too busy to engage in sexual pursuits. (Even though at the moment, those pursuits usually involve only me!) Join me as I chronicle this journey!
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